I recently had the privilege of speaking with a group of 17-year-olds on the cusp of starting university (My alma – Ashoka University). There is something genuinely exciting about interacting with younger people with such diverse motivations and goals. (Though, it was quite disappointing to see so many wanting to get into private equity.)

Their questions are hyper focused based on the sort of majors that want to do. What courses should they take? How to get the best internships? Can they do a double major along with a minor and a concentration? How should they prepare in advance to get into an Ivy league college for post grad?

It brought me back to my own headspace at that age. I was asking the similar questions — and arguably even more clueless about what actually prepares you for life after graduation. But three years out now, I have been doing a lot of reflecting. And my conclusion is simple: it does not really matter what you study.

If I had to prioritise, these are the components that have actually mattered for my personal and professional life –

1. Communication — The single most important skill, full stop. It does not matter what field you are in. If you can communicate clearly and tell stories with confidence, you can open almost any door in the world.
2. Emotional strength — Building mental resilience is extremely important. If you put yourself out there, you will experience anxiety, stress, failure and possibly heartbreak. All of which will help you grow so that you can manage these situations and yourself better in the future
3. Friendships — Possibly the greatest investment you will make in your entire life. University is one of the rare windows where deep, lasting relationships form naturally. Do not waste it optimising your GPA at the expense of your people.
4. Empathy — Be kind. Ask questions. Be genuinely curious about the people around you. Help everyone that comes along the way without expecting anything in return.
5. Likability — The world, on average, rewards people who are pleasant to be around — not necessarily the most talented ones. Be humble.